Akka's Unsolicited Advice

Welcome to Akka’s Unsolicited Advice, where eldest South Indian daughters finally get the mic (because we’ve always had the opinions). If you’ve ever been the family’s built-in babysitter, unpaid therapist, cultural translator, and emotional shock absorber all before hitting puberty, this one’s for you. Each episode serves up stories, unsolicited (but spot-on) advice, and big sister energy with a side of sarcasm. Whether you’re the resident akka or just need one in your life, come validate your oldest-daughter trauma with us. No filter, no apologies, just a lot of love and probably some judgment.

Host

Aarthi

I’m Aarthi, a recently graduated physician, lifelong eldest daughter, and your official dispenser of unsolicited wisdom. I’ve been giving big-sister advice long before I had a medical degree to back it up. Raised in a South Indian family where “figuring it out” was the default eldest daughter job description, I’ve survived it all, from cultural pressure to curfews to career crises.

Now, I’m turning the mic on and teaming up with fellow Akkas to crowdsource the advice we wish we’d had (but ended up giving anyway). Think of it as group therapy, but with more side-eye, snacks, and some lovingly delivered judgement.

Whether you’re an oldest daughter, have one, or desperately need one, we’ve got unsolicited opinions, emotional support, and a few spicy takes just for you.