Dharshini
I’m Dharshini and I work in Employee Relations. I may be the youngest of this trio, but trust me, my advice is no less unsolicited. Growing up in a Tamil household as the older sister was honestly a mix of chaos, comedy, and character development I did not sign up for. Between juggling endless expectations, decoding double standards, surviving family WhatsApp politics, and constantly walking that tightrope between tradition and independence, I’ve seen it all.
I've helped my Amma write emails that somehow turn into life lectures, defended my life choices to every “curious” relative, and tried (and failed) to set boundaries without sounding ‘disrespectful’.
But honestly, being a Tamil daughter and sister is something I wouldn’t trade for the anything in the world. We carry the drama, the duty, and the deep love, all while trying to keep our sanity intact. It’s messy, it’s hilarious, and somehow, it’s still the best part of who I am.